Not particularly worried about people who are jealous of my child. They haven't spent the past 17 years putting their's first. They put their happiness first...and their job...and their house...and their material possessions. They pay others to care for their kid instead of doing it themselves. They don't maintain their relationship with the other parent because it just wasn't fun anymore...boohoohoo. So now your kid isn't where mine is? Shocking. Not my problem.