The best advice I give to couples before marriage is to remember to LOVE the other person no matter what happens. I remember my pastor telling me the same thing while we were being counsel before we said our vows. In a way it's like I heard her, but as soon as our first argument occurred after being married, I forgot everything she told us. So, if you are wondering why marriage can be so hard at times, the bible tells us it's going to be. But stay encourage. It's okay. Many marriages face